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Hayley/ Duality & the space between

Walking through the space between

Some things need more than a social media post, especially if you're a deep thinker with a vivid imagination and complex processing, (Yes, I'm talking about me, but I know you get it).

This is where we look at the contradictions that make change so complicated.

Stuff like why knowing what you want can suddenly have your people-pleasing and perfectionism patterns going into overdrive.

Or why craving something different can feel so out of reach because inside there's something that's terrified of disrupting what you already have.

Through stories, symbolism and adventures through the Kingdom, you will begin to recognise your own patterns before they play out. You'll start to understand and update the rules that've been shaping your choices and build safety from the inside out, so that you get to choose and act differently. 

This is where new possibilities start to open up.

You won't suddenly become fearless or stop caring what anyone else thinks. But you can stop those things from making every decision for you.

You can ask yourself what you actually want and not feel completely flummoxed because you've never even given what you want any thought before.

Or what feels right for you. Maybe what you'd choose if you weren't quite so busy trying to get it right for everyone else.

There'll be useful things to try that have helped me or my clients.

Stories that will have you looking at things differently.

It's little moments of recognition where things begin to shift.

If you want to know why you do what you do and can't do what you want to do, come wander with me.

Who knows what might be possible for you when you do.